Are you a spouse, parent, or sibling of a military member who is being investigated or prosecuted for misconduct? As much as you may want to help, there may be many hurdles that stand in your way. At Golden Law Inc., we have a team of military defense attorneys to offer support to the family members of guardsmen, soldiers, cadets, and airmen under investigation, suspicion, or prosecution for misconduct.
Below are just a few tips to help you take control over the situation and assist your loved one through this difficult time.
Control Your Emotions
It’s normal to get emotional or feel sad, disappointed, or betrayed after your partner has been accused of misconduct. You may even feel worried that your reputation will suffer if the record is made public. Whether you think they are guilty or not, you should not let your emotions take center stage.
Before searching for the best counselors or attorneys, search your feelings first. Do you feel sad, disappointed, or concerned? Having this emotional honesty will help you see the situation clearly so that you can help your loved one make the best decision for his or her future.
Offer Support
Whether your loved one is under investigation for minor or major misconduct, facing the court-martial can be stressful. Let your loved one know that you are there for them, no matter the outcome. You can choose to support them financially or emotionally, depending on the situation and what their needs may be.
Be sure to set healthy boundaries as well, particularly if you are their main source of emotional support. One way to create this boundary is by separating the accusation from your relationship. It is possible to simply be there for them in their time of need without taking on the burden of handling their legal situation.
Be Patient
The process of defending your loved one from the allegations of misconduct can take time. The process involves conducting investigations, filing numerous motions with the court, and negotiating with prosecutors. This may take weeks, or even months. We know that waiting can be difficult, but your loved one will appreciate you being with them every step of the way.
Hire an Experienced Attorney
Military law is different from the typical civil codes. There are other implications that your loved one may face if found guilty. They may lose their livelihood, their support group, their military career, and the right to serve their country.
You can help your loved one by putting them in touch with experienced military defense attorneys. A lawyer with this experience will help your loved one if they are accused of misconduct and are trying to avoid a court-martial.
Contact a Military Defense Attorney Today
If you or your loved one has been accused of misconduct in the military, Golden Law Inc. can offer the legal support needed. Contact us online or call us at 949-491-1661 to schedule a consultation with our law firm.
